Unspoken rules of the men’s world
Men are indeed very complicated and changeable “animals”, and they have struggled throughout their lives.
In order to reflect his value, men will continue to secretly create ideas in their hearts.
Hiddenness is a nanny who grows up, but also a nutrient that nourishes the soul of a man.
A man will be empty without a secret, and will feel exhausted.
Men can’t live without secrets.
For these men, these secrets are the hidden rules of the men’s world.
Men recognize their hidden rules very much, always want to separate the fragments of life in the mysterious X file, so that women who want to know them can not get a glimpse.
So, from the mouths of those men, we asked these people about the secret rules behind each other and advised you to take the courage to read these men ‘s self-righteous, self-satisfied strategies. Understanding these may help you inInsight on the battlefield of love and gain something.
Rule 1 never promises scene: Enron and Lao Mai have been in love for two years, and they think that they are ripe and can consider marriage.
But when Enron offered to get married, Lao Mai always said, “This is not a good day.”
So Enran was silent, and had to live like this, but after a while she was not satisfied.
Lao Mai told the truth at a buddy’s party: getting married is a horrible thing.
The thought of having to bear so much in the future made me shudder.
In fact, like Enron, it really doesn’t have to work.
Old Mai’s hesitation and his unafraid attitude towards life have led to Enron and his love always changing.
Finally, one day Lao Mai went to study in Britain, leaving Enron alone sad.
Analysis: Men don’t take responsibility and often don’t promise easily.
A man doesn’t want to be too troublesome, he will think hard to please you to win your favor, but he never gives up his promise and always gives himself a way out.
This way: Seeing the other party’s irresponsible signs, you must immediately stop your romantic thoughts.
You can be friends with him, but never have fantasies about him.
Those who really want to have a home with you will definitely take you to his home, meet his parents and friends, and discuss your future dreams and roads with you, instead of just flashing words and being indifferent.
Rule 2 Don’t rush to call back, he said, “In general, if I have an idea for a girl, I want to call early, but when I myself am in a hurry, she may think that I am reckless, orI think I’m crazy about falling in love with her, so I’ll say it for a few days.
Analysis: There is a rule of “call back in three days” in the film “Mother Son” which is admired by men, rather than a fixed one-if so, it would be too easy.
According to our investigation, there is no time limit for one thousand spirits. The core of the rule is: as long as it can handle it, it will not call back.
Men sometimes delay calls just because of their laziness. They don’t have the urgency to make a plan like women do, or they don’t think getting your phone number is too important.
The man asks you for contact information, only to show that he may, but not necessarily, call you.
Solution: Either go out of the house, call a friend, or rent some movies to watch. In short, do something to enrich yourself, and don’t keep a phone that will never ring.
Remember, unless you are a masochist, don’t torture yourself by waiting for a call.
Rule 3 often plays the “evaporation” scene: Wheat thinks Zou Shi is strange, he does not reject her favor, always treats her well and looks very close, but they have fewer and fewer opportunities to meet.Time is getting shorter.
From time to time, he would disappear completely, not answering the phone or returning text messages. When she was anxious, she suddenly appeared with a smile, as if she had forgotten what had disappeared.
Zou Shi said this: “Actually I have treated her less well than before, but she still buys me small gifts and always calls me.
I’m really annoying. She always loves me according to her thinking. I won’t make her sad because I’m used to being a gentleman in the face of girls. Chic and funny not only target her alone.
“Analysis: Sometimes men are willing to leave with women if they leave: he conquers you with a diligent and chic attitude, so that you cannot forget his vitality and humor. You can’t help thinking of him, but he has time to not contact you like he has evaporated.
By the time he reappears, he remains as funny and cute as ever.
Even if you have heard of his bad reputation, you still can’t help but trust him.
What you say he can cope with is overwhelming and makes you feel really happy with him.
Even he recklessly said that I just like women, and you think that this is his honest and shining personality.
He can always be unique and wonderful in your emotional world.Although sometimes you realize that you are not the only one, you are obsessed with him.
Because for men, it’s easy to play two sides.
This way: men finally revealed their true colors, sometimes they just played some emotional games.
So you must not take it seriously. You have to learn to hide your desires and emotions and maintain your mystery, which will make it easier for you.
The more urgent the other person is, the more calm you will be.
It’s better to worry him with your stomach.
Rule 4 Tenderness and Ecstasy Soup Scene: “We all know that women like compliments and romance,” said Mr. Zhao, who has researched women, “man sometimes does not want to show his tenderness and flatter women.
But we clearly know that our tenderness will not be thrown away in vain, and the reward is always generous.
“I will say something nice in due time to make her feel satisfied and safe.”
The unbelievable effect of these insignificant flattery words or a few romantic gestures.
“Analysis: It is no secret that women expect men to sway their tenderness from time to time.
When a man tells you that your eyes are as bright as stars and your teeth are as white as pearls, how can you not be moved?
Unfortunately, however, our survey shows that men always make up sweet words to meet women in order to achieve their goals.
Prevention: Strive to distinguish between true and false, and keep your head awake.
If his praise is general like “you are beautiful”, then he is likely to force himself to be false and gentle towards you; if his praise is specific, like “you laugh, the freckles on your brows are jumping, it is beautiful”,Then it is likely that it is a natural manifestation of your love for you.
Rule 5 The last brand Hao is a master of love. For those girls who are anxious to express his love to him, he soon loses interest, and another female painter Xin Er, she even knows that she loves Hao,Never reveal his emotions.
She always kept a close attitude with him and did not express her feelings in front of him.
Zihao later uncomfortably told his buddies that he might really fall in love with Xiner. Such a girl made him fascinated and he didn’t know what happened to him.
Scene: You know each other, and he wholeheartedly treats you. You gave him the business card, and you can almost be sure that he will send you a large bouquet of roses tomorrow.
But a week passed and you didn’t receive a call.
Jiaming, 28, revealed that “on the call back, every man will grasp a certain rhythm and let her wait.”
Analysis: Remember, always play the last card between the two of you.
Never rush to show your hole cards first, so you can easily take the initiative without being hurt.
When a man doesn’t know exactly what you think, he misses you more and more.
You always give him a reason to find you.
As long as you leave him the idea to see you, you will always have a chance to win.
If you tell him sincerely at the end of your first date: I like you so much that you start losing.
Even if he tells you the same thing, you just have to smile a little and you have already won in the details.
In fact, he is not interested in your confession. What he studies is why you are always half a shot slower than him, why you always meet him, and it ‘s like forgetting him.
Solution: Don’t pay too much attention to him, don’t rush to confess.
Live your own life, have your own friends, your own hobbies, he is only a small part of your life, not the most important, maybe in this game, you can really win it.
Rule 6: Cold treatment is divided into surgical scenarios: Maybe your relationship is not perfect at first, but you think that there is at least the possibility of development.
But he never called, for a whole week, you finally understood: you were dumped.
He used a disgraceful, and even a little timid, abandonment tactic: let the other person know for herself.
Analysis: Why do men choose this way of breaking up?
One is because it is an easy way to escape.
Breaking up in person or over the phone is definitely a pain.
Who wants to fight?
Most men are reluctant to have confrontations with women.
For men, breaking up is countless “why” and tons of women tears that cannot be answered at all.They are at a loss for this, so they think avoiding quarrels is preferable to both parties.
There are also realistic reasons that make men reluctant to break up with women.
They leave room for themselves, and the armor returns to your life when he is alone.
The man knows that as long as the interval is not too long, all he needs to do is to apologize for not calling, to deceive some beautiful panic about his recent whereabouts, and then invite her to go out for a pastime, then in an instant, she againBack to his arms.
Solution: After comprehending the suggestion of the man breaking up, self-esteem and self-love, resolutely do not fall in love with such a man.
Remind yourself at all times that you need a man with 100% true love, not a veteran of unreliable love.